I once heard that the only difference between you and the people that have what you want is that the people who have what you want ask themselves more and better questions.
Are you asking yourself any questions? If you don't ask yourself questions, it's hard to move forward. If you want better results in your life, ask yourself better questions.
Here are the 5 top questions that have helped me find clarity and take action toward my purpose...
1.) What do I want? or What I really want in life is _______. This is a question that can be asked ask at any point when you feel lost, stuck, or unmotivated.
2.) How do I really feel about _______? This questions is hugely helpful when discovering your point of view about something. Being indifferent leads to uncertainty. Ask yourself the question and be honest with how you feel.
3.) What's really going on? I will ask myself this question if I'm in a bad mood and taking it out on someone else (usually my fiancé) or if I'm feeling scared, unmotivated, or full of resistance.
4.) What's the worst that can happen? If you are afraid to take action on something ask yourself what's the worst that can happen. Is it really that bad or are you making it much worse in your head?
5.) What's the best that can happen? Allow yourself to imagine the possibilities rather than focusing on your fears. Take action from a place of excitement rather than fear.
✨Don't just ask the questions. Really take some time to think about and respond to them as honestly and as in depth as you can. The more you understand yourself, the better off in life you will be. Ask and you shall receive.✨
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