I can very easily fall into the trap of focusing on what I wish I had rather than being grateful for what I do have.
Yes, it is important to know what you want and to aim higher but if you are focusing on what you don't have out of jealousy or greed then you are missing the most important part.
The most important element to happiness and wellbeing is appreciation and being grateful for what you have and then being grateful for what's coming in the future. Trusting that things will fall into place rather than trying to obsess or control them is another important element.
It is such a waste of energy to focus on what you don't have or how you wish things had gone differently UNLESS you use that information to inspire change. Know what you don't want so that you can know what you DO want but don't spend time marinating in the things you don't want or fall into victim mode.
Spend more time focusing on all that you have than all that you don't!
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